Sex Secrets !

 

24 Sex Secrets that men wish you knew - they are guaranteed to boost your pleasure too!

 

 

 

 

 

Their deepest desires and hot spots – things they’d never tell!!

 

 

Physique freak out

Boost his confidence.  Apparently us girlies aren’t the only ones with body concerns.  Gloss over possible hang ups – like his stomach and dwell on the areas he seems to flaunt and like.

Try shoulders, arms, legs, or any part that is tattooed.

 

Arm charm

A bit weird this but hey ho here goes… run your toes along his calves as you massage his arms with your hands.  This (according to a man) makes it feel like there is another woman present and as this is every man’s dream….

 

 

Girl-envy

Pampering is something men deny themselves for fear of `looking girly`.  Truth is they love all the softer touches..scented body lotion, silk sheets and candles, massage oils etc;  Surprise him though – if you talk about it he’ll deny he will like it!!

 

 

Keep your kit on!

Keep one item of clothing on.  Make sure its soft and girly – satin or cashmere, something like that and the feel of it is sexy.  Plus, being covered up will make him feel lucky to be getting underneath there!

 

 

Hair flair

Lay him down naked and brush your hair over his body.  It just feels really good, all sexy and girly somehow.

 

Man handling!

The underside of a man’s penis is far more sensitive than anywhere else so switch your grip and let your fingers point down when you grab it.  This will ensure maximum pleasure in that department!

 

Nipple neglect

Men’s nipples are just as sensitive as a woman’s and yet can be seriously neglected by the girlies.  Just do to his what you’d like doing to yours.  No biting though if that’s what you are into – ask first!!

 

 

The Silent Strip

A silent striptease is sexier than anything you could be saying while taking your kit off.  Maintain eye contact most of the time and make sure you do it slowly and silently.  Then make all the noise you want!!

 

X marks the spot

Each man is as unique as each woman when it comes to individual turn ons.  Take the time out to notice when he goes wild if you kiss or touch a certain area and keep coming back to it.

 

Going all the way?

Although it can sometimes seem that men want to go all the way all the time – this isn’t necessarily true.  It’s a pressure to perform that is at the root of this behaviour so take the time to chill him out once in a while and keep him waiting.  Be an expert tease!

 

 

Sex Souvenir

Marking him up can be sexy.  A secret scratch, nibble or love bite somewhere he can see will keep your steamy session in his mind. If you aren’t particularly cannibalistic, try leaving a pair of knickers or a bra behind to keep you in his mind

 

Thigh high

Men love smooth legs.  So wax `em to within an inch of your life and layer on the lotion to keep them as smooth as silk.  Also, men apparently use your legs as a gauge to know how well they are doing.  Making your legs tremble is the ultimate `I’m a lovegod` moment for any man.

 

Ear leer

If you want to go near his ears then make sure you do it right.  Keep it light and gentle.  Tickle and tease his ears with your tongue – don’t slobber all over them like he’s got a particularly tasty ice lolly stuck to the side of his head.

 

 

Tender love

Kneading him when massaging him can feel good – but you are not his physiotherapist.  Try a more gentle touch – use silk scarves and body lotion to send him to sensual heaven.

 

Feeling ballsy?

Take the initiative.  A ballsy woman who takes the lead and takes control of the passion is sexy.  Boss him around a bit – although don’t scream and shout at him you don’t wanna make him think you’re that bossy do you?!

 

Torso tension

A man’s torso is a sensitive spot.  Use your nails lightly and your lips and make lots of oohing noises and you’re guaranteed to make him think he’s a bit of a sexgod.

 

Gasp at the sight!

Every man would love it if he thought that a woman was impressed with his bits.  Don’t be too obvious like asking him if he has planning permission to keep that erection but a little ego massage wouldn’t go amiss.

 

 

Dirty talking

Men love talking dirty during sex – and they also love it when you do.  Whisper a few sordid sentences and watch his temperature hit the roof!

 

A touch too much?

Remember that song…`and when I think about you I touch myself..` - well if a man thought you did that while thinking about him (and not Brad Pitt) he’d have a head bigger than central park.  So show him and let him know you touch yourself. 

 

 

Face feeling

This is a dodgy one as most men spend more time doing their hair than women do so running your fingers through his hair may make him recoil at the thought.  His face is a different story though – make sure you touch his face like you’d want yours touching.  Try a little tenderness huh?

 

A little..at..a..time

Men’s sexual thoughts are almost completely driven by visuals.  So letting him sneak a peek at you undressing or in the shower will keep his interest up!

 

Male G-spot

Between a man’s crotch and his bottom is where the male g-spot resides.  Its about as sensitive as it gets down there so touch lightly at first and see how he responds.  Most men have never had it touched funnily enough so coax him gently and watch the results!

 

 

Guesswork

Changing your appearance and keeping the mystery alive are ways to ensure he keeps trying to figure you out.  Try sporty looks and then glamour girl looks – don’t always keep the same style – it gets outdated quickly.

 

Heavy breathers

A wet kiss on his skin followed by warm moist breath on his body…. need we say more?!  You didn’t think we meant scary weird phone calls did ya?!

 

 

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Enough of keeping the boys happy – how about what you want and how to get it!!

 

 

Flattery…

…will get you anywhere.  Plus it will get you anything so start by massaging his ego and then slip in your request.  A  request wrapped up in a compliment will make it look like you aren’t criticising.

 

 

Start little…

…and then work on him!  If you want to change rather a lot of things about his sexual performance then work on one thing at a time.  You can’t build Rome in a day and you can’t turn a crap lover into Don Juan overnight

 

If all else fails…

If all else fails send make him click here:

Things Men Do Wrong During Sex.  

Or if you think that’s a bit obvious email it round your friends and hope he gets the hint! 

 

 

 

 

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